Is it all 4 1/2 year olds....................

Well when I had run out to ake the trash out tonight, I come back to Hubby kicking Kimo out of the house. He said to Kimo "well if you don't want to live with us then go and find a new family." You'd think Kimo would have learned already after he has had this happen to him before. Well I asked Hubby what had happened and he told me he walked into the kitchen to find Kimo hanging and swinging on the fridge door (needless to say this isn't our fridge to begin with). I can't believe him. UGH!!! So hubby spanked his little butt and sent him to his bed. Well I guess from there Kimo started to mouth off saying thatif Daddy spanked him again he was going to punch Daddy in the face. Then he says he doesn't want to live here anymore. What do you do with a 4 1/2 year old who mouths back and can just be a real stinker? It almost seems like he is going throught the terrible two's now instead of when he was suppose to (he was good at 2). Maybe it is just a boy thing............. He told Daddy sorry and wanted to come back and live here again (he stood on the porch and cried the whole time he was out there). After this he has been much better tonight. I just don't get why kids have to go so far and get punished then be the angels we know they can be. I know we were all that way when we were kids.